by Charity and Deborah
[To a friend at PsychForums:]
Yes, it's hard. We're working through deep-seated trauma and have no idea when we'll feel noticeably better.
The two of us were just noticing how odd it feels to feel connected by mutual pain. The adults in our system all tend to isolate, and this sets a tone for the system as a whole and for the collective person. We don't want to have relationships based on pain.
Of course, we value our friends here and in other places online. Pain is a common factor in our lives, but we also share positive moments here. It doesn't seem like our (adults') internal relationships consist of anything but pain.
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